Friday, March 29, 2013

St. Francis of Assisi – Patron Saint of Animals



I love animals!  Pope Francis’ selection of St. Francis d’Assisi as his namesake is one that endears him to all animal lovers and pet owners.  Read stories about St. Francis d’Assisi at http://www.americancatholic.org/features/francis/stories.asp to get to know him.  For children, and adults, owning a pet is a wonderful way to learn one of life’s most important skill – total responsibility for someone/thing else.

My little shih-tzu, Maizie, was the dearest in my daily life.  Look at this face - how could anyone have left this sweet little dog in an animal shelter?  How fortunate for me they did.  (see my Pinterest pin "dogs" at Little Lady).  I needn’t tell you how devastated I was when she passed away last January at the age of 12, 84 people years.
 
She prompted my volunteering for the much needed support of animal organizations.  I was a board member on the City's Animal Shelter (formally called the pound) and the Golden Retriever Rescue of El Paso.  Pet organizations are always looking for help regardless of the amount of time you are able to give – one hour or all day.  It makes you feel good at the end of the day.  It also makes you sad.  I always say, “if I had the money, I would buy a place with lots of land and bring them all to live with me.”  

Maizie was also responsible for getting me to watch one of my favorite TV shows, Too Cute.  It airs on Saturdays on channel Animal Planet.  Reruns of programs begin at noon, new shows air at 8 pm ET.  Each program follows the birth and growth of (up to 10 weeks) 3 varieties of puppies or kittens.  It is so well written and interesting.  You can’t help but smile and learn too.  See a preview at http://animal.discovery.com/tv-shows/too-cute.  It really is just too cute!  

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Pope Francis I Begets Family Memories - Part II



My previous blog was about Mother.  This one is about my Uncle Pierre, Catholic priest, who inspired Mother to choose her religious vocation.

 Uncle Pierre was my Mother’s cousin.  His family was the one Mother grew up with when my grandmother died in childbirth.  His Parish, St. Martens-Voeren in Belgium is bordered by both Holland and Germany.  The primary language is Dutch, German is secondary.  (see picture of the presbytery [define: the home of Roman Catholic parish priest])

I spent part of my summers (see blog dated 10/4/12, Summers spent in a Dutch windmill) at the Parish campgrounds in St. Martens-Voeren.  I was a Belgian (what Americans would call) Girl Scout.  We would spend the month of July having the time of our lives.  It was special one-on-one time to spend with my Uncle.

During World War II, he was imprisoned for 2 years in a concentration camp in Dachau, Germany.  The memory of what he had undergone never left him. Every decade, starting in 1950, he and the other surviving priests returned to Dachau, each celebrated Mass for those who died at the camp. (Over 1000 priests died in Dachau.)

In 1970, he stopped in Frankfurt for a short visit with my husband and me.  I remember as soon as he stepped from the train, he was shivering, scared.  He disclosed the terror would return every time he was in Germany,  The fear left as soon as the train crossed the border back into Belgium. At the time of his visit, there were only 30 priests left to perform the mass at the camp.  He seemed relieved he would not have to stay long. 

Uncle Pierre was the parish Priest in Ruanda for over 30 years.  Ruanda was a Belgian colony until 1961.  Catholicism is the primary religion in Ruanda.  Uncle Pierre loved Africa and “his” Rwandan people.  (see picture of Uncle Pierre and his parishioners during one of the Rwandan celebrations)



He encouraged my cousin, Joseph, to come to Ruanda when Josef took his final vows as a priest.  When my uncle retired, (Father) Joseph continued working and teaching in Ruanda. (translation of picture from French to English:  Joseph Schmetz, Priest for the Church of Rwanda, Nyundo)

Uncle Pierre was instrumental in reducing the deaths of Rwandans in his parish from HIV aids by actively discussing and promoting the use of condoms.  He shared with me, the deaths he saw daily amongst women, men, but most of all, babies prompted him to make the decision he made counter to the Vatican’s doctrine.  He felt God would approve of his decision and he could live with that.

I lived in Belgium from 1988 to 1996.  My girlfriend’s husband was a doctor with Médecins Sans Frontier (Doctors without Borders).  During Ruanda’s 100-day genocide in 1995, it was my connection to my Uncle and Ruanda that prompted me to participate in transporting medicines, clothes, and other necessities from Antwerp to Ruanda.  My professional role at the time was Materials Manager Europe for a global automotive seat manufacturer.  I used those connections to schedule the trucks, define the logistics, and the documentation needed to cross borders throughout Europe and Africa.  Médecins Sans Frontier is the only organization I make sure I donate to each year.  They truly represent the best-in-class of the medical profession.
 
I saw Uncle Pierre frequently once he retired. He loved to talk about his church and his people and I loved listening to, and learning from, him.  The picture of the two of us walking the countryside in Eupen, Belgium is the last time I saw him before he passed away.

Yes, the selection of Pope Francis I makes me think of my Mother and my Uncle and the memories flood over me.



Monday, March 18, 2013

Pope Francis I Floods Family Memories



White smoke billowing from the Sistine Chapel.   The selection of a new Pope floods my memories with thoughts of my Mother. I keep the four visual memories of Mother’s first marriage - to God - in a shadowbox (see picture). 
  
 

My Mother was born in the Netherlands in 1916.  She was the third child born to my maternal grandparents.  She lost her mother, my grandmother, at the age of 4.  My grandmother died in 1920 during the birth of her fourth daughter.  My grandfather could not support the 4 children he had and they were separated throughout the family.  My mother lived with relatives in Belgium. 

She entered the convent as a Postulant at the age of 20.  A Postulant is the name given to a young girl or woman their first year.  It is year of “internship”.  It helps them decide whether this is the life that is right for them.  It gives the postulant the opportunity to live the religious life through personal experience.  It also gives the convent nuns the opportunity to help the Postulants with their decision-making.  A year later, in 1937, sure this was her vocation in life she made the decision of free consent and started her first year as a Novice (a person formally admitted to a religious institute to prepare for eventual religious profession.).


During the ceremony, one of joy and pride, she received her black habit  and white veil.  Nuns have their hair cut during this initiation.  At that time, nuns had to cut their long hair to symbolize relinquishing any vanity they possessed. (see picture of mother’s beautiful long braid)   Today, nuns are free to keep their long hair. They pass through a novitiate (probationary period) of two years.


The third year, 1940, she took her First vows (today also called Temporary vows or Temporary Professed vows).  At that time, her black veil replaced the white one worn during the novitiate period.  (see picture of Mother).  First vows are for five years at which time one takes the Permanent vows (also, Perpetually Professed or Final Profession) as a nun.  She taught kindergarten.  I believe my love for children and teaching comes from my Mother. 


The war broke out in Europe in 1940.  Initially, the one place the Jews fled to, from the Nazis, was the Catholic convents.  When the Nazis finally arrived, they not only captured the Jews but the Nuns too.

My mother spent 2 years in a concentration camp.  The stories she shared with us were filled with horror. The Nazis made them run naked (what greater humiliation for a nun?) through the camp to get their one bowl of soup.  They would then have to run back spilling most of the soup on their return.  The Nazis tortured the nuns as well as the Jews.  The removal of the bone in my Mother’s left-hand wrist proved a constant reminder until the day she passed away.

The first US military soldiers to land in Europe were the Negro units.  Many Europeans, like my Mother's family, will tell you, they did not know there were white Americans until later in the war.  My father's battalion (see previous blog “Remembering a Negro WWII Battalion”) was one of the first to liberate people from the concentration camps.  One of those was my Mother. 

The first night they took refuge in underground bunkers.  A bomb hit the bunker my Father, my Mother and others were in.  My Father's back was broken by the explosion.  The only place one could take American soldiers was the Catholic convent.  My Mother spoke English (actually she spoke 8 languages) and became the translator between my Father and his doctors.  During his recuperation, my parents fell in love.  My Mother said “yes” to my father’s marriage proposal.  She shared her decision to leave her first “marriage” with Mother Superior and left the convent 6 months before she was to take her final vows.

The Sisters gave Mother her missal to keep as a souvenir (see picture).  The rosary in the shadowbox is one Mother had blessed in Rome by Pope Pius XII.  The back of the crucifix lists Rome, Italy.


My parents were married 52 years.







Remembering a Negro WWII Battalion


I found these pictures in my father's memoirs. The U. S. Army was segregated until the early 1950's.  During WWII,  my father was an officer of one of the Negro battalions.

This first picture is of all the battalion leaders.  Back row, left to right:  1st Lt. Whittenberg, CWO Henry DeWitt, and, my father, CWO James Powell

Front row, left to right:  1st Lt. Gilbert J. Reiter, Major John S. Carpenter, Major Richard B. Peters, not named

These were my father's soldiers.  Back row, left to right: Alvin Simon, Arthur Price, N. A. Richardson, Bruce Chandler, Timothy Roberson, Marion Kay, Isiah Woodall, and William Coleman.

Front row, left to right: Saunders Carpenter, Isiah Boone, Fred E. Richardson, Chauncey Lyles, Rogers Johnson, Lorenza Larkins, Lloyd McKinney, William Scott, William Kersey, James Gibson, and Clarence Ware.

To these men, I thank you for your contributions in making this country great even when you could not take advantage of the opportunities you fought and died for.



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